Premature ejaculation or premature ejaculation is occurring too soon after the onset of sexual stimulation without voluntary control possible. There is no universal definition, including the minimum time that should last for penetration during sexual intercourse, but it may seem important that man can control the timing of his orgasm so that sexuality is seen as fulfilling . We are talking about premature ejaculation when ejaculation occurs before one or both partners do not want.
Premature ejaculation is not a disease, premature ejaculation works perfectly well at the physiological level, but the difficulty in controlling his ejaculation can sometimes be wrong and lived to harm the couple’s sexuality.
We are talking about primary premature ejaculation if the man has always ejaculated in an erratic since his first sexual intercourse, despite a long history and repeated sexual intercourse with steady partners.We talk about premature ejaculation secondary when a man who had no problem controlling his ejaculation is there suddenly confronted repeatedly. Often it is the result of an emotional shock that premature ejaculation is.
- 1 In 1948, according to the Kinsey report, half of men surveyed ejaculated within two minutes.
- 2 For younger
- 3 Cure his premature ejaculation
- 3.1 Partner support
- 3.2 Exercises
- 3.3 The drug solutions
- 3.4 Notes
- 4 What is it?
- 5 Premature ejaculation
In 1948, according to the Kinsey report, half of men surveyed ejaculated within two minutes.
In 2006, the CSF survey, 40% of men saying they often argue that rapid ejaculation is a problem neither for themselves nor for their partner.
Today, women have become more demanding and claiming the right to pleasure and men are more concerned about their ‘performance’ and is therefore sometimes better satisfy their partner than men are concerned with prolonging their erection.
We can not talk about premature ejaculation if the man is still virgin.The making of masturbation last longer, to avoid the practice when one is uncomfortable (fear of being caught, etc.). And not to seek the earliest possible ejaculation (2-5 minutes) is positive and to discover the sheer pleasure of masturbation in itself and not just those related to ejaculation.
Similarly, do not worry if the first sexual intercourse is very fast. We must allow time for the body and brain get used to all these new sensations. Especially not neglect the preliminaries: the shorter will not take longer and will result in more focus on the sexual penetration and the sensation in the glans.
Cure his premature ejaculation
This section does not provide a miracle cure to premature ejaculation (there is none).It just aims to convince the premature ejaculation of the existence of solutions to the problem and give an idea of avenues to explore. In any event, using a doctor is needed.
The support of the partner is fundamental. Premature ejaculation often locked into a vicious circle and folds on itself. The dialogue, although it may be difficult to engage, is a necessary first step and liberating. If / the wife / partner must take the first step, she / he must find the words that clearly express its frustrations and expectations, but ensuring its companion all his support and love. It is useless to expect: the politics of the ostrich does not expect to find a quick fix and the wait ends up amplifying the frustration and resentment that may then lead on to other aspects of the relationship couple.
For premature ejaculation that are not in a stable, there is a whole rehabilitation work they can do alone.Need help from a Rotary wife / partner is necessary for phase couple to learn to handle the excitement. However, this phase can go very quickly, without being very restrictive for the woman / man (apart from the prohibition of entry).
Do not fear the outcome of an / a new / new partner / companion. A man / woman who has feelings will be indulgent (e) and attentive (e), especially if he / she sees in front of him / her of somebody voluntary, solid in his life everyday and before this problem. There must be primarily an emotional relationship and trust. For the first report, we must have confidence (helped by rehabilitation exercises and the work of self-talk). At least check, do not withdraw into yourself. We need to dialogue with their partner.
The correction of premature ejaculation can be seen as a corrective exercises. Their goal is to learn to control and stabilize the level of excitement:it is indeed not the ejaculatory reflex beyond the control of premature ejaculation, but the level of excitement that leads to the triggering of reflex ejaculation. It is not possible to act on the ejaculatory reflex, but only on the level of excitement the trigger.
These techniques can be disappointing when they are proposed as ready-made recipes. Their aim is to encourage the patient, with the help of his partner, to work on oneself, to modulate its level of excitation, to identify warning signs of ejaculatory reflex and influence the threshold. While he lived mostly sexuality anhedonia, he was invited to ‘taste’ the pleasure that precedes and accompanies the ejaculatory discharge and to share this discovery with his / her partner.
It is to ask the partner to tighten the base of the glans to a signal man.This method is effective if the signal man is made early enough, that is to say before we feel the risk to ejaculate.
In fact, most is not the tightness that its signal, for which said signal called Landmark: human stresses (mark) and the excitement level reached. He calibrates his excitement. The tightness has a purpose for reinsurance.
We understand that if the signal is done too late, when the man feels he may ejaculate, this pressure will compress the urethra, preventing semen temporarily evacuated, the relaxation, it will sink without pressure.
It is to vary and even stop the movements according to his excitement. We asked the man to focus on his feelings as soon as he sees the signs of the onset of ejaculation, he made a sign to his / her partner to stop any movement ‘Stop.’
His excitement has diminished, he again made the signal to his / her partner to resume stimulation ‘Go.’ This is one of the easiest and most effective, but requires great concentration.
If unsuccessful, we must identify and evaluate a neurotic etiology, analytic treatment will then be considered. If there is a conflict of torque underlying explaining the origin of premature ejaculation, couples therapy will then be considered.
The drug solutions
Some drugs can slow the onset of ejaculation. However, these drugs should be prescribed in combination with behavioral and psychodynamic approach, and viewed as a temporary aid.
Antidepressants, including inhibitors of serotonin reuptake seems effective in this indication. For example Floxyfral (fluvoxamine), Zoloft (sertraline), Prozac (fluoxetine) and Deroxat (Paroxetine).Like all medicines, the use of antidepressants has side effects more or less troublesome and should be done through monitoring medicalized.
There are many ways to love that does not require penetration and therefore release the partners from the stress of not being able to ensure penetration that meets their expectations or their idea of sex. And for all these variants of the sexual act, a premature ejaculation is no embarrassed by their problem.
Let us not forget that sex is primarily a moment of shared intimacy, relaxation, tenderness, pleasure seeking and sharing. No need to make this moment in anxiety desperate to conform to a model.
What is it?
We talk about premature ejaculation when man can not control his excitement lasting: ejaculation occurs too quickly and involuntarily.
Most of these men ejaculate before penetration generally fair or less than two minutes after it began. Another possible definition is that of an ejaculation occurring sooner than desired either before or shortly after intromission, the source of the frustration of one or both partners. In other words, the concept of maturity is not a matter of time and is dependent upon the satisfaction or dissatisfaction of both partners.
Premature ejaculation is primarily a lack of control of sexual arousal, it increases very rapidly. Sometimes the man is unable to identify the sensations premonitory to ejaculation, the ‘point of no return’ after orgasm.
It is the expulsion of semen prior to when the expulsion would occur either very quickly after vaginal penetration, sometimes even before penetration.
The subject simply can not restrain himself.
This is a psychological disorder that requires treatment of the subject by the doctor, sometimes by the psychiatrist.
This support is often psychological and psychiatric long for a tangible result.
The contest will be the partner of course asked to try by small manual maneuvers to delay the ejaculation (eg Gently pinch the base of the penis) and of course psychological assistance will be indispensable.
Moreover, in some cases, the administration of clomipramine (Anafranil) in a dose of 50 mg per day appear to have effective action in delaying ejaculation very clearly. A lower dose would be less effective and discontinuation of treatment would eliminate its effect.